In many states, twice a year, we re-set our clocks. We move them forward one hour in spring and backward one hour in fall. I have heard. different reasons why we do this, but I am not sure I completely understand. What I know for certain, is that this process wrecks my sleep pattern and routine for at least a week. When I reflect on God’s eternal clock, I realize there is no need to be anxious when I am waiting for certain events to happen. This is especially useful if I am seeking a life partner. Many of us desire to be married. We believe our life journey will be more complete and fulfilling. Some of us make this a goal and set a timetable or deadline to find a spouse. We become anxious, impatient, and even desperate to find someone to marry. When I reflect on God’s eternal clock, I realize there is no need to be anxious when I am waiting for certain events to happen. This is especially useful if I am seeking a life partner. Many of us desire to be married. We believe our life journey will be more complete and fulfilling. Some of us make this a goal and set a timetable or deadline to find a spouse. We become anxious, impatient, and even desperate to find someone to marry. With all of this arm twisting, what comes next is nothing short of hunting. An unnatural eagerness, very much like a craving, strolls into the soul. Bars, concerts, singles sites, dating apps, even the church become hunting grounds. I once knew a pastor’s daughter who went to every service to check out the single men who attended church. She successfully snagged a mate, but the marriage eventually went south, and she was back on the market. Did I say market? Well, what I am describing is “wistful” dating (shopping). It involves a type of seeking to get or have. This type of dating makes us vulnerable to loss of control, stimulated by physical affection, boiling over into pre-marital sex. The climax to this type of dating is multiple disappointments and emptiness. Wouldn’t you rather have some leverage on finding the life partner who genuinely loves and cherishes you? Here is the secret:
Do you want to spend your life living under a contract which begins with. distrust (a pre-nuptial agreement, dual names), has limited liability, and can be voided (annulment or divorce)? Or would you rather bask in the pleasure of a covenant based upon trust, responsibility, and vows symbolizing the meshing of two lives as one? If you make seeking a life partner one of your goals, you are setting yourself up to be controlled by an earthly time clock that can spring forward and look like the real thing, or move backward with a breakup leading back to the drawing board. Spiritual wisdom says dedicate your life to be a channel of Godly love. When you do this, your perfect life partner will spring from the eternal clock of God. “Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” (Psalm 37:4)
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How to Recognize the Dangerous Pothole Challenging Your Faith in God - Spiritual Nugget No. 58/14/2019 When I was in elementary school, I remember laughing hard at this story* about a king who was tricked by some weavers. They convinced him they could make invisible clothes that would give him special powers. His entire kingdom was fooled because they thought the king could tell who was stupid and wicked when he wore these clothes. So they fed his ego, drenching him in compliments, like syrup on pancakes, about his new unseen garments. As he led a parade through town to show off his new clothes, everyone oohed and awed. Suddenly, one child yelled out, “The king is naked!” Can you imagine the shock and awe of the townspeople on hearing the outburst? Of course, the king would never admit he was naked as a jaybird, so he continued to walk through the streets without clothes. I remember thinking, what a stupid person he is; the child showed more wisdom than the king. After rereading this story as an adult, I realized it has one of the most graphic examples of deception you can imagine. The details of the entire story point out how easily any of us can be caught by a pothole of deceit:
Deception disguises itself in different forms and ways. It is often more difficult to recognize when it involves affairs of the heart (mind emotions). Deceptive relationships between two people usually begin when senses (eyes, mind, touch), are aroused and heightened by what we see, feel and hear. This usually involves sexual desires which dull mental and spiritual alerts, meant to warn us of deception. Addictions are sensory-based forms of deceit, bringing temporary pleasure to the body and mind. The likes of pornography, cigarettes, drugs, and alcohol demand that we make conscious choices to yield our minds and bodies to the lure of their addiction, like slaves yield to a master. Promises of prosperity designed to make us rich, are powerful and tempting. History is full of stories about people wiped out of their life savings and retirement monies by con artists. Scripture tells me those who forget the source of all wealth, are destined to suffer grief. (I Timothy 6:10) NIV Finally, positioned at the top of the deception list is religion built on the worship of idols, men, or philosophy. Scripture teaches that this kind of religion is useless. ( I Samuel 12:21) NIV You might say, “Ok, I already know all of this, so how do I overcome this giant pothole in my faith?” Well, let’s begin with Faith 101. First, surrender your mind, will, and desires to Christ. Put all of your trust in Him. In other words, you must die to who you think you are, so Christ may live and create who you really are. (Galatians 2:20) Second, I have learned to listen carefully, not only to what is being said but to who is speaking. How well do I trust that person? If I listen with my heart, I have a built-in alarm system, equipped with just the right data to steer me in a godly direction; it is the Spirit of the Lord. Next, remember the key to prosperity is in seeking the Lord—not listening to one-minute commercials, going to conferences or getting free miracle products, crystals, or other misleading objects. Foolish riches can easily sprout wings, leaving you with nothing. (Proverbs 23:5) NIV Food desires can be one of the worst enemies. One of the substitutes for the word overeating is greed. Greed is a selfish, and intense desire for something or someone. This includes food, wealth power or sex. Do you want greed to control your life? Eating is necessary to nourish our bodies, but when we overstuff with food and enjoy it as a tasty treat for emotional or sexual gratification, a package delivery of obesity will surely knock at our doors. Overeating will take you to a new fat norm. Repairing a pothole includes preparation, beginning with the removal of loose material or debris. It takes about three to six days to fix a pothole. Recognizing the evil of deceit, also requires some preparation to identify areas of vulnerability. Just as serious damage caused by a pothole on a road takes time to repair, repairing potholes in us will require time and effort to identify any deception that makes a hole in our faith. (Romans 14:23) NIV We can’t hide a weakness when it is on a runaway track, it will require work to stop. Prayer is part of my armor, so I USE IT to help me become better at recognizing deception. Let it be the first step toward “spiritual pothole” repair. |
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