Gratefulness Is the Greater Gift-Spiritual Nugget 59

As the holidays approach, my email in-box becomes saturated with invitations to take advantage of buying new stuff. Every well-known retailer has an online presence, and with excellent marketing skills and imagination, they stimulate a successful buying response.
 
Gift buying takes center stage during the holidays as people strive to express heartfelt love, gratefulness, and appreciation to others. Sometimes these efforts get short-circuited since the person(s) who received the gift may not have liked it, needed it, wanted it, or maybe they even re-gifted it.
 
Far too often, all the hoopla about gift-giving becomes ritualistic, and these well-intentioned efforts feel like they have been drenched in cold dishwater. Perhaps we would experience greater satisfaction in expressing our gratitude if we altered our perspective on gift buying and instead invested in gratefulness of the heart.
 
Gratefulness is an attitude. It is not about a once-a-year holiday. It is a 365-days a year commitment.
 
First, it expresses gratitude for what we have, which may be different for each person:

• We have lots of choices: watch tv or read a book (our sight), listen to music (our hearing), go for a walk on the beach or in the woods (our limbs).

• If we can talk, shout, scream and laugh there is no shortage on what can be accomplished. In some cases, laughing at ourselves is a cure for all kinds of things.

• Tents may be a stopgap, but they are far from the ideal living situation. If we have shelter, food, water, and trendy bottles in which to carry water, we are rich.

• We are able to move from place to place despite the traffic. We even share the road with those who ride a bicycle and don’t own a $400-a- month bike training membership.

 
Gratefulness also expresses what God has done:

• We are grateful for the times God has spared our life or kept us safe from unforeseen hazards.

• We are grateful for all of the rubber band moments that have stretched and challenged us in our life.

• We express gratefulness for God’s gift of chosen family. Sometimes they will add new wrinkles and tax our nerves, but so what?

 
Equally important, it expresses thankfulness for the blessings we have received from others:

• We are thankful for the sacrifices others have made for us. A lifetime of blessings and success have happened because of the sacrifices made by others.

• We express thanks to God for those who have added benefit to our life journey. Husbands, wives, and children are considered benefits.

• We express gratefulness and cherish the gifts we have received from others—practical and impractical.

• We express gratefulness and thanks for the service others have rendered: doctors, nurses, dentists, business people, pastors, ministers, teachers, etc.

 
Reaching the heart of the person(s) you want to gift will convey gratefulness in unique ways.
 
If you send a card to someone to let them know you are thinking of them during a non-holiday season, this will affirm gratefulness and unconditional love. If you pay a visit to someone in an extended care facility during a non-holiday season, you bring the gifts of joy and hope. If you attend a family dinner that is likely to be contentious, bring flowers. It adds sensitivity to the family mix.
 
When we convey gratefulness, we reflect the Spirit and heart of God. We are models of God’s grace. There is nothing within humankind that earns or deserves grace. It is a gift from God.
 
Gratefulness is a gift from you or me absent of payment for its expression. Buying gifts during holidays may be unavoidable, but if you wrap your gift in gratefulness, this will surpass the value of any tangible present you may purchase.

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